Supporting children through tragedy
Our hearts are with the families, campers, and community members impacted by the devastating floods in Texas, including the tragic events at Camp Mystic. We are holding space for those experiencing grief and shock, and we are thinking of the children who may be struggling to understand what happened.
Moments like these are a heavy reminder that childhood is not always carefree. For some, trauma is not a distant concept; it is a lived experience. Whether children were directly affected or simply heard the news, these events can create confusion, fear, and lasting emotional impact.
As adults, we may not have all the answers. But we do have the ability to show up with care, honesty, and steadiness. We can be the safe presence children need.
How to support children during difficult times
Make space for questions
Children may not ask directly, but they are always watching. Gently ask what they have heard or how they feel. Let them know it is okay to talk, and that you are here to listen.
Speak simply and honestly
Keep explanations age-appropriate. Children do not need every detail, but they do need to feel that they are being told the truth. Avoid speculation or information that may cause unnecessary fear.
Reassure, without overpromising
You do not have to say “everything will be okay.” Instead, remind children that there are many adults working to keep them safe, and that it is normal to feel scared, sad, or unsure.
Stay grounded
Children take their emotional cues from the adults around them. When you stay calm and present, it helps them feel secure. If you are struggling, reach out for your own support. Your wellbeing matters, too.
Be a safe place for follow-up
Trauma is not something children process in a single conversation. Let them know they can always come back with more questions. Keep checking in, even if they seem “fine.”
A note to youth-serving professionals and organizations
If you work with children—at a camp, in a classroom, or in your community—this is a time to revisit your trauma-informed practices. Make sure staff and volunteers know how to respond when a child shares something difficult. Ensure your policies support both emotional and physical safety. Create moments for connection and care.
Children do not always have the words to say what they need. But we can show them with our actions, our presence, and our willingness to listen that they are not alone.
We are grateful to everyone continuing to show up for children in the hardest moments. Thank you for being part of a community that chooses prevention, compassion, and healing.
If your organization needs support in responding to trauma or creating safer spaces for children, we are here to help.
